Ruby's Cheerleader

Ruby has been doing a soccer program on Friday nights for the last month or so. While she enjoys playing soccer in general, her main love of these Friday night sessions has been spending time with a new friend. Blair is a 5th grader who volunteers at the soccer nights, and she connected with Ruby the first time she met her. Since then, when they are both at soccer, they are inseparable. 

Blair is also a junior cheerleader and has taught Ruby some of her cheers. That quickly moved into Blair's mom arranging for Ruby to participate with Blair's cheer squad at the homecoming game; she even lent us an official uniform!

A little backstory on Blair: her mom works in Special Education, which has obviously had an effect on Blair. She connects with people, and has an amazing heart for and patience with everyone. It has been really neat to watch her with Ruby (and without!) over the last month!

Today was the big day: Ruby was beyond excited when we arrived; she could not take her eyes off of Blair (and it was mutual!). Once the girls were introduced, Blair pulled Ruby on the field to get the game started and then they cheered next to each other on the side lines. 

Blair was so amazing, never taking her eyes off Ruby and trying to explain all of the cheers as they came up. (There were a LOT of cheers!) 

She high-fived and encouraged Ruby at every turn, and never left her sight or let her feel alone. She even carried her back after they all ran down the field for an important play.

Just before half-time, Ruby told Blair she was tired and came to sit with me for the last 1-2 minutes of the half. I'm very impressed she lasted that long given all that she was taking in while she was participating.

We are so grateful for Blair and her mom, and everyone who let Ruby participate. These opportunities are ones that seriously just land in our lap sometimes and I have to believe they are intentionally given to us so that we can own our influence (Ruby's influence!). Maybe now one of the girls on the squad, or someone in the stands that saw Ruby will interact differently when they meet someone who looks a little like her, or maybe they'll even feel comfortable enough to say 'hi'. The world needs more Blairs, but I know that she doesn't exist without first knowing some Rubys.