Christmas

It was the first year that it's been just us at our house in probably forever. It was quieter but still a lot of fun. We spent Christmas Eve making food and playing outside. Just before we left for church, we took a walk to drop off some of our baked goods at a friends house. The girls rode on the electric skateboard, which sounded like a great idea at the time. However, on the ride home, the board got going too fast for Maddux to control it, and they toppled. Ruby was such a trooper - no tears, just a pouty lip. Her face, however, tells a different story.

At church, Ruby fell asleep on Lehr's shoulder, which was probably his favorite part about the whole day. We stopped for sushi on the way home (our new Christmas Eve dinner), and then we went home to change for holiday light-seeing. The kids put on their matching PJ's and we made some hot cocoa and set out with my pre-made map/list. There were a few really cool houses, but the winner was the one that included a neighborhood full of ball-type light creations that were strung high in the trees. It was taken to the next level when one of the houses started lighting up sky lanterns just as we drove by. We pulled over and watched them light about a dozen before letting them loose in the sky. So pretty and fun to watch. The night finished with the kids opening their gifts to each other - their tradition.

Christmas Day started with our scavenger hunt to find Baby Jesus to put in the manger. (Of course, that included some arguing also, as it always does.) We opened some gifts, ate some breakfast and enjoyed just being. Just after noon, we gave the kids their 'big' gifts. We usually don't do a big Christmas, but each kid wanted something larger than usual this year, and we went for it. Maddux opened an iPod Touch (which she's begged for since forever), and Eli received a new guitar. They were psyched, to say the least.

After the gifts, we started our (new) annual Christm-olympics. It was a lot of fun, Ruby had a blast, and the big kids actually got along!

It was warm and sunny outside, so we got to do at least half of the events in the backyard. Maddux and Eli legitimately tied for first place, and in an unexpected twist, Eli said he did NOT want to do an extra game to determine the winner - he thought it was best that they tied.

We followed that up with homemade spaghetti and meatballs and an ice cream birthday cake for Jesus.

Youth Christmas Party

As much as the big kids (Eli, especially) love our church youth group, the annual Christmas Party takes it to a new level. The year before he could join the big kids, the 5th grade party included a costume component, and he rose to the challenge, dressing in a sweatshirt that we decorated (a la Ugly Christmas sweater). The following year, he didn't get a chance to go all out because we came directly from a Revivalists' show in town (priorities), but last year he jumped back in by wearing a tree skirt covered in lights and tinsel and dollar tree ornaments. It was fantastic.

But raising the bar like that each year can be hard, so when he brought up this year's party, I really thought he might opt to dress in nice clothes instead (the alternate option). Nope; a few days before he decided to create a Charlie Brown costume. We bought a yellow shirt for $2.95 and sharpied the black zigzag, and he pulled shorts and the rest from his closet. Then he constructed the Charlie Brown Christmas tree on his own, down to the lone red ball ornament.

You're a good man, Charlie Brown!

Basketball

Maddux just started her winter season of rec basketball. Although she's only played one season before, she really enjoyed it and (of course) picked up the game fairly quickly. Her athletacism comes into play a lot with games that require speed because my girl can sprint!

There have only been a few practices and a few games, but already she's made some baskets! She got one basket in first game, and three in 2nd game! Maddux has shown great blocking and speed on the court, and this season we've seen an increase in her reaction (and action) time. When she gets the ball, she already has a plan for it this year, which is such a vital tool out there!

Therapy Update

It's been a while since I've posted an update on Ruby's therapies. Here we go!

Speech
Ruby is stringing together words more and more often now. Instead of saying, "Tall", she might sometimes ask, "how tall Eli?". And one of her favorites right now is "Stop mommy!" She will sometimes follow it up with something like "my turn" or "No sing".

The emerging sentence structure is a good thing, no doubt, but it is a reminder of just how delayed her motor planning is in regards to speech. That girl barely gets cut a break in our house with her speech. (i.e. When she say, "milk", we make her give us a sentence or request like, "More milk, please." or "Can I have milk, please." Repeat this with every aspect of her day, all day long!) Even though she is improving, it is a sloooow process.

Ruby is repeating everything, which is huge! I remember vividly when she was two, turning over photo cards with her and saying the words with the hopes she would make any kind of approximation. Now she will not only read words (or identify photos) spontaneously, but when she hears her siblings say things, or especially if she hears a new word or phrase, she will repeat it intelligibly.

Sight words are something we've been working on for a full year, in preparation for this kindergarten year, which is so focused on sight words. Ruby currently does 35 of 50, give or take a few, on the first try, without any prompting from me. She is starting to read more and more, but that's almost always directed by me; she has yet to discover that she can find those sight words in her books without me next to her.

OT
Ruby is buttoning and unbuttoning big buttons on sweaters and jackets! Unfortunately, most of her clothing is smaller buttons, but you have to start somewhere. Her OT at school has a few sweaters for Ruby to use as practice and her manipulation is coming along. At home we are starting to see her become more skilled in zipping up her jacket too. She has yet to be able to line up the zipper on her own, but once there, she usually holds the bottom and zips up herself.

Regarding scissors, she is getting much better at cutting shapes with scissors. Turning her paper to get the corners or curves is a challenge, but with minimal help, she is making it all of the way around shapes like circles and rectangles.

PT
We are not formally doing PT at this time, and we don't have swim or dance classes. BUT we are always looking for physical therapy opportunities in our day, so it is still something I can measure growth in. Ruby now often alternates feet when walking on stairs - up is easier than down, but if she's holding my hand, she'll do it on the way down.

Ruby's jumping stamina is still increasing. Just a year ago we finished Aquatic Therapy because she was finally able to jump enough to clear the height of a pool noodle. Now she jumps on and off curbs, over small sticks, and in place just for the fun of it!

Another big thing Ruby is doing, something she's always done, is mimicking and imitating other's actions. If she sees someone doing something of interest, she intently watches and then repeats it. This is a HUGE part of why we push for inclusion at school for Ruby, and it is helping with PT things as well, like balancing, running, riding a bike, bouncing a ball, etc. One fun way it came into play last week was during Maddux's basketball game. The players and coaches circled up for prayer before the game, and Ruby grabbed an older friend's hand, and Daddy's hand, and led them to circle up as well.